Suckered

Once there was a girl, who had some weird dates. So she hoped and she prayed for a man who was normal and the perfect mate. Then appeared three suitors that all seemed to be great. Tonight I shall only tell you of one of them that happened as of late.

So when I was looking for a date for the last post I called the following gentleman and weeks later he returned the favor by taking me out. We had a good time. And he asked me out again (not bad). The second date was as good as the first and I began to think he was kind of cute. At the end of our date though he hugged me and SNIFFED me...followed by the sign of satisfaction. Unsure how to react to that expression I pulled back and he came pushing forward to my face. He came 70 and paused then shifted to the left and kissed me on the cheek.

The next day there was a few texts and a call. We interacted a bit and he came over to my house and awkwardly walked out to our garage. I follow him out and tried to follow his reasoning for going out there. After a while I walked back inside with him a step behind. I turned around to turned the light out and he full on suckered kissed me (yes his mouth completely engulfted mine, with slight suction). After pulling away I was unsure what to do I walked into the kitchen. Puzzled he walked in and asked what I was looking for, turning around he sucker kissed me again. And then again five minutes later. I was so blown away but not in a good way...there was nothing for me. It was just akward and honestly I was waiting for it to end. I feel bad but really that is the first time I've not felt lost in the moment. So do I tell him or let it slowly fade? THAT IS THE QUESTION!

Burning ring of fire

I was told that the only way I could go to statium of fire was to get a date. I didn't think this would be too bad since I had one in mind...but when that fell through I still kept my cool. I moved on to another guy that I have been interested in...that was a flop. So I moved to another who I found to be handsome and fun to be around...nothing. I continued on this path for hours and nothing came from it. Bummed I told a fellow Co worker my troubles...her solution was to go with her brother in law. She gave me his number and told me to call him. However at this point I was ready to put in the towel so I didn't call.
I felt bad later when I was asked why I didn't call so I did and now we are going out! Wish me luck!!

Reason?

I know that all things happen for a reason. So what is the meaning behind me running into a man who I haven't seen in 4 years. Not only that, but I see him everywhere! But before you all get excited he is always on a date or with some girl?

Mixed signals

I know that guys always say that girls send mixed signals...there is some truth to that; but guys need to see that the door swings both ways. The other day a guy who I think is cute, showed up to a party with his beard shaved. Note that I am not a fan of facial hair (scruff that's another thing) but on him I liked it. His shaved face was much better though!!! I told him this and he smiled and said "I'm glad you like it because I heard you only dated guys who are clean-shaven." Wanting to make sure if what I was hearing was right I ask "so you shaved for me?" Smiling again he says "yes." Excited I begin to ask him more about his week. He tells me that he went to a blow out sale at a local store and that I need to go. I tell him I would love to go and to have him give me a call when he goes again. We continue our conversation and then 5 minutes later he grabs my arm and says " you know what (male name) is going tomorrow you should call him and go with him." Figuring that he is just trying to be helpful I aim for another chance at spending time with him; but every idea I come up with he either says no or passes me to another person.

Was the shaving a joke? Maybe but the next day he came and sat next to me in class and told me how nice I looked and talked to me the whole time. At the end of class with me standing next to him he asked another girl out..
WHAT THE...

He has to have a sense of humor...

So I have a little crush and have been amazed how much I like this guy...but the thing that stopped me in my tracks was the fact that his first name is my dad's and his last matches a past love...two names are ones I don't care to hear and he has them both.

Sleep?

So the other night I had gotten home from a long trip and my friends had invited some people over to watch a movie. We were all stuffed on the couch when my eyes began to get heavy. My head began to fall to one side and it kept going until it found something to rest on. It wasn't until minutes later when I realized that I was resting on my neighbor, a good looking man. It was pleasant but once the movie ended he jumped up and left...meaning anyone?

The Hand Off

Okay so many of you are wondering what ever happened to the "3 Dates Man" or the Waterboy! Well he is still pretty wonderful but the other day I realized I hadn't seen or heard from him in well, a long time. I was lucky enough to come in contact with some great tickets to a sporting event...front row baby. Taking matters into my own hands I called him up and asked if he wanted to go. His reply "Oh that would be great but I have a study group tonight. You should call and ask this other guy." Yes he handed me off to another guy, I may not be super smart but doesn't that point to the fact he isn't interested? It's an idea though, if I don't want to go out with someone I'm going to recommend another date for him. See I learn something from everyone!